More than 2.4 million grandparents are raising granchildren. In New York City alone, there are 83,946 grandparents responsible for the care of their grandchildren according to the 2000 U.S. Census.
You are likely to find that raising your grandchildren can be challenging, isolating and overwhelming. It is important to find the right resources to get the help, support and answers to your legal, financial, health, education and behavior questions.
When you assume this role, you need to take care of yourself, too. Your grandchild will benefit from your presence for many years to come. So, you need to take time each day to relax. Don't hesitate to ask for help from friends and relatives. Depending on your situation, consider finding a day care provider so you have a break from caregiving. And, look after your own health by getting regular checkups and taking your prescribed medicines. Joining a support group allows you to get helpful hints and feel less alone. And, tell your doctors if you feel depressed to they can help.
One excellent resource online is the Grandparents raising Granchildren website. It contains links to many more online resources important to grandparents raising grandchildren.
NYCcaregiver.org is here to help you find the answers and support that you need.